Dan Savage
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Savage Love
Savage Love: The Harm in Hiding HIV Status
I could really use your advice. I recently found my boyfriend’s HIV meds while I was house-sitting for him and…
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Savage Love: Cum Again
As you can see by my signature, Dan, I’m a linguist. On your podcast, you frequently ask researchers “whatchyougot” on…
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Savage Love: Should Parents Have Wild Sex with Kids in the House?
We’re an adventurous, bisexual, non-monogamous, opposite-sex couple with a teenage kid living in Europe. We don’t really struggle with finding…
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Savage Love: A Web of Relationship Drama
One of my very close friends, a lesbian, has been married for a couple of years now. It’s been nothing…
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Savage Love: Leftover Advice for Live-Streamed Quickies
We hosted our second Savage Love Livestream last week and it was a blast. I ran my mouth as fast…
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Savage Love: Big Gay Dream Interpretation
I’m wondering if you can help me with some dream interpretation. If it helps for context, I’m a single 29-year-old…
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Savage Love: Don’t Come in the Casserole
Something is bothering me and I don’t know where else to turn. I’m a bisexual man. I’ve been married to…
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Savage Love: My Girlfriend Wants To Be Non-Monogamous
I’m a lesbian and my girlfriend is bi. I’ve read your column and listened to your podcast for a long…
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Savage Love: Getting It Up or Getting Out
My boyfriend and I were friends for a couple of years (we’re both 30-year-old gay men), then I stopped traveling…
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Savage Love: Working Out the Kink
I’ve always been excited by BDSM but I’ve only minimally explored this side of myself until very recently. I’m a…
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Columns
Savage Love: When a Threesome Just Isn’t Enough
Why are threesomes much more accepted in the popular imagination than foursomes? I was just Googling “finding foursomes” and the…
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Columns
Savage Love: Sex as a Senior Is Healthy, Creepy Old Man Is Not
I’m a nearly-80 straight male with undiminished libido. I have no problem with it, just a persistent curiosity. Like, why…
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Savage Love: A Lesson In Trust
I’ve been in a relationship with a wonderful guy for the past year. The only problem is that he works…
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Savage Love: Never Give Up
Borrowing Gen Z’s love for labelling everything, I’m a 46-year-old homoromantic asexual Canadian faggot. For me that means I’d like…
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Savage Love: Digging Up Private Messages From the Grave
My husband recently passed away. He was a wonderful person and we had 12 great years together. He was also…
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Savage Love: Obligations and Mistaken Identities
I was dumped in August by a guy I was seeing for 10 months. He told me that he wants…
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