Dan Savage
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Savage Love Quickies: Monkeypox, Edibles and Jacking Off Upside Down
Gay dude here. What the fuck is up with monkeypox? Do I need to be worried? Yes, you do. I…
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Savage Love: Oxytocin, Dopamine and Bonding After Sex
My partner and I are a heterosexual couple with a large age gap. He is the older one, and our…
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Savage Love: Let’s Call Out ‘Just My Preference’ Gays for Racial Profiling
I’m taking a week off, so this week’s “Savage Love” is a reprint of a column that was originally published…
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Savage Love: Bad Dom Challenges Limits of Inexperienced Sub
I’m a 29-year-old bisexual woman in a non-monogamous relationship. A few years ago, I wanted to explore my submissive side…
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Savage Love: Bad Relationships Lead to Fears of Flawed Judgement
I’m trying to date again after back-to-back negative relationship experiences. Experiences that have made me question my own judgment and…
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Savage Love: Boyfriend’s Riches Have Partner Feeling Like a Kept Boy
I’m a 31-year-old queer person living in Europe. I recently met a 46-year-old man. We were visiting the same…
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Savage Love Quickies: Balls, Personal Hygiene and Low Libido
My laptop died last week. My laptop couldn’t die when I was in the office, with capable tech support people…
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Savage Love: Freysexual Fiancé Would Rather Sext With Strangers
I am a 37-year-old heterosexual woman in a monogamous relationship with a het cis male. Let’s call him “Rick.” We’ve…
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Savage Love: Abortion Rights, Swinger Apps and Bejeweled Butt Plugs
I’m a straight guy, married to a straight woman for 15 years. Several years back, I opened up to my…
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Savage Love: One-Sided Open Relationship Leaves Husband Lonely
Straight guy here in a one-sided open relationship. My wife and I opened our relationship just for her and to…
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Savage Love Quickies: Topping, Dick Cages and Whipped Cream
I’m a heavy sleeper, and my wife knows that, but not so heavy that I don’t wake up when she…
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Savage Love: Gays Worry Hours-Long Bondage Might Be Dangerous
I’m a married gay man. I’m nervous about sending this question and my husband is afraid you might answer it.…
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Savage Love: Gonorrhea Outbreak Leaves Bad Taste in Swinger’s Mouth
Bisexual female in an open/monogamish relationship with a heterosexual male. My partner and I have some friends in the swinging…
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Savage Love: Vulva Pain and a Ghost Story
I am a 29-year-old woman and I have a problem when I have sex or masturbate. I always feel an…
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Savage Love: Stop Thinking ‘Is He the Right Guy Forever?’
I’m a 28-year-old queer woman. It’s been a while since I’ve been in a relationship, as it was impossible for…
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Savage Love Quickies: Lies, Piss and Sexless Existence
My boyfriend and I have not had sex for more than two years. When I first asked him about it,…
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