Savage Love: Big Little Lies
Kink or insecurity?
I’m a middle-aged man dating a younger guy. He wanted to be a “boy” to a Dom top daddy, and
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Author: Dan Savage
Savage Love: Don’t Be That Guy
Men and women
I’m a 40-year-old guy with a 30-year-old girlfriend. We’ve been together a year, and I can see a future with
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Savage Love: The Lost Kinkster
Navigating a world without Tumblr porn
I’m a 19-year-old bisexual woman really into orgasm denial and edging. With the recent Tumblr ban on all NSFW content,
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Savage Love: Should I Stay or Should I Go?
Two breakups, one brake on
I’m a thirtysomething straight woman married for 16 years. Eighteen months ago, I met a man and there was an
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Savage Love: Reluctant Face-Sitting
Quickies
I’m a kinky single woman who keeps attracting the wrong men for me — specifically, submissive guys into face-sitting. I’m
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Savage Love: Slight Christmas
Tumbling down the censorship rabbit hole
Straight and married but not boring, and heading to my parents’ house for our first family Christmas since my asshole
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Savage Love: Cringe and Purge
Isn't this supposed to feel good?
I’m a 59-year-old man in good health. For basically my whole adult life, I’ve had this problem during intercourse with
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