Dan Savage
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Savage Love: Straight Guy Thinks About Men Spanking Him
I’m a straight guy but my whole life I have wanted to be spanked by older men. Does this make…
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Savage Love: Gay FinDom Scene Might Be Too Straight for Gay Sub
I’m a gay man in his forties. I very much love my husband but two years ago we acknowledged that…
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Savage Love: Couple Exposed to COVID Clashes Over Christmas Plans
My boyfriend is male, I am female, and we’ve been together almost three years. We live alone in separate homes,…
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Savage Love: A Committed Relationship Doesn’t Always Mean Exclusive
I’ve been in a committed relationship for 10 years — committed because my boyfriend wants it that way — but…
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Savage Love: Extreme Bondage Desires Leave Straight Kinkster in Knots
I’m extremely kinky, with an emphasis on extreme. To give an example, I love long-term and extremely restrictive bondage. Think…
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Savage Love Quickies: Urethral Sounding, Oral Sex and OnlyFans
My wife and I are in a great ENM (ethical non-monogamy) marriage. We have two couples that we are friends…
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Savage Love: From Soft Swaps to Swinging, Don’t Get Carried Away
I’ve been with my partner for three years and we recently decided to dip our toes in the waters of…
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Savage Love: When Fantasizing During Sex Ends up Biting You in the Ass
So, my husband (42-year-old straight male) and I (38-year-old bi female) have had a closed relationship so far, but we…
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Savage Love: Not Into Dating a Trans Man? Please Show Yourself Out
I have a friend who is a trans man. Recently, he just got out of a shitty relationship. His ex…
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Savage Love: Can a Non-Binary Person Label Themselves a Lesbian?
I have a fun little labeling question. I’m a non-binary person who was assigned male at birth (AMAB). I gravitate…
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Savage Love: Get Your Head Out of Your Ass and off the Dating Apps
I’m a 44-year-old gay male and I’ve never been in a serious relationship. I would like to find my way…
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Savage Love: Woman Exploring Adult Baby/Diaper Lovers Navigates Role
I want to correct you on something you’ve said repeatedly: A man can “hide” his bisexual orientation. I disagree. I…
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Savage Love: What’s an Anxious Cuckquean To Do?
I’m a 33-year-old straight female, been with my husband for 10 years, married for six. When we first started dating,…
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Savage Love: A FinDom Helped My Brother Save $120K
I’m a woman in her forties in a relationship with a man and I have my first STI with symptoms.…
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Savage Love: Age Gaps and Abuse of Power
Thirty-year-old trans woman here, Dan, and I have a question about what is surely one of your favorite subjects: the…
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Savage Love Quickies: Sexting Is Ruining My Post-Breakup Life
I’m a cis woman. I had a quasi-relationship with a man last year that only lasted a couple of months.…
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