Dan Savage
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May- 2020 -20 MaySavage Love
Savage Love: Power Players and Problematic Porn
Here’s a non-COVID question for you: I’m a queer white female in a monogamish marriage. I vote left, I abhor…
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13 MaySavage Love
Savage Love: Hearing Voices and Listening to Logic
It’s taken a lot to do this but here goes. I am a 38-year-old gay male. I have been dating…
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6 MaySavage Love
Savage Love: Carrying Heavy Loads in a Marriage
I’ve been with the same amazing man for a dozen years. We’ve had our ups and our downs, same as…
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Apr- 2020 -22 AprilColumns
Savage Love: Big Moves
I was raised in a religious home and didn’t lose my virginity until the embarrassing age of 26. I was…
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15 AprilColumns
Savage Love: The Grass Isn’t Always Greener
I am a super queer presenting female who recently accepted that I have desires for men. My partner of two…
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9 AprilColumns
Savage Love: The No-Corona Challenge
Your last two columns and your last two podcasts were all about the pandemic. Everything everywhere is all about the…
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1 AprilColumns
Savage Love: Open and Shut
My husband and I got married in August of 2019 and we were together for over five years before getting…
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Mar- 2020 -25 MarchColumns
Savage Love: Holed Up
My question is on managing “gray area” intimacies during the pandemic. I have a lover/friend that I’ve been hanging out…
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18 MarchColumns
Savage Love: Quickies
DEAR READERS: I live in Seattle, the U.S. epicenter of the novel coronavirus epidemic, with my family. A lot of…
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11 MarchColumns
Savage Love: Brownie Points
I’m a cis bi woman, and I mainly have sex with people with penises. I have a really gross problem,…
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4 MarchColumns
Savage Love: Full-Throated
I’m a middle-aged gay man and I was recently diagnosed with sleep apnea. This is a disorder caused by the…
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Feb- 2020 -26 FebruaryAdvice
Savage Love: Spit and Polish
I’m a 31-year-old cis bisexual woman. I’m hetero-romantic and in a monogamish relationship with a man. We play with other…
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19 FebruaryAdvice
Savage Love: Thrown Bones
I’m 20, straight, male, fit and active. I masturbated prone — flat on my stomach — for years. I’ve now…
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12 FebruaryColumns
Savage Love: The Girls
My boyfriend and I were having relationship issues until we tried something new: pegging. He wanted to try it, but…
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5 FebruaryColumns
Savage Love: Cam What May
I started reading your column when I was a 20-year-old kid. Now I’m an old married lady with 20 years…
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Jan- 2020 -29 JanuaryColumns
Savage Love: Rain Checks
I’m a 33-year-old woman in a relationship with a 43-year-old man. My boyfriend’s fantasy is to have a threesome with…
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