Dan Savage
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Savage Love
Savage Love: Never Give Up
Borrowing Gen Z’s love for labelling everything, I’m a 46-year-old homoromantic asexual Canadian faggot. For me that means I’d like…
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Savage Love: Digging Up Private Messages From the Grave
My husband recently passed away. He was a wonderful person and we had 12 great years together. He was also…
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Savage Love: Obligations and Mistaken Identities
I was dumped in August by a guy I was seeing for 10 months. He told me that he wants…
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Savage Love: Quad Relationships Aren’t For Squares
I’m a thirty-something gay man married to a thirty-something gay man. For almost two years, we’ve been seeing another pair…
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Savage Love: A Sex Worker and a Missed Connection
Married guy here. I’m 33, the wife is 31. Our fifth anniversary is next month but we’ve been together for…
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Savage Love: Red Flags Are Flying
I’m a straight man who’s been dating a woman for not quite four months. In the beginning things were light,…
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Savage Love: All Choked Up
I’m a 29-year-old straight woman in Pennsylvania. My question has to do with choking and consent. I’ve had two experiences…
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Columns
Savage Love: When Divorce Is Not an Option
I’ve been married for thirty years to the same man. I have dealt with his tantrums, his screaming, and his…
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Advice
Savage Love: Making Your list and Checking It Twice
I’m a cis male in my late twenties. I’ve recently become consumed by a specific fantasy I fear is unattainable,…
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Savage Love: Diaper Play, Vintage Porn and Plugging Holes
I’m a 35-year-old woman. I recently discovered I’m a size queen. (Is it OK for me to use this term?)…
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Savage Love: The Mastery of Marriage… But Why Bother?
I’m a 38-year-old bi woman who has been sleeping with a married male coworker for the last eight months. We’re…
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Columns
Savage Love: A Small Price to Pay for a Good Man
I’m a gay guy who’s involved with a guy I met a few months before COVID-19 took off. He’s a…
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Savage Love: How to Make Coworker Relationships Less Awkward
I’m a twenty-something more-or-less lesbian in an East Coast city. I’m primarily into women, and I’m only interested in relationships…
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Savage Love: Committed
Is it terrible to believe you can still have a truly monogamous and loving relationship with one partner after 20…
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Savage Love: It’s a Female-Led Relationship, Now Act Like It
My wife asked me to write to you about our situation. We’ve been married for 15 years. I am 50…
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Savage Love: Cuckolding Role-Play a Go-Go or No-No?
I’m a lesbian in a long-term relationship. After much conversation with my partner we’ve decided to explore cuckolding role-play together.…
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