Dan Savage
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Savage Love: Finding the Right Relationship
I’m a cis bi guy in my forties who doesn’t have a lot of experience with other men. I’m happily…
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Savage Love: After the Breakup
I’m a female in my late twenties. I broke up with a toxic ex about a year ago and I’ve…
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Savage Love: The Doghouse Can’t Be Forever
I’m a 29-year-old straight male. I’ve been with my 25-year-old partner for six years. I love her and think that…
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Savage Love: Should Couples Snoop?
I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years and we have a great relationship—or so I thought. Last week, I…
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Savage Love Quickies: Relationship Woes
I want to thank everyone who attended our third Savage Love Livestream on March 13. Mistress Matisse was our very…
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Savage Love: The Cuckold Dilemma
A male friend — not my best friend but a close one — told me his wife was really attracted…
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Savage Love: Assholes Don’t Have Epiphanies
I’m having a problem advising a friend. She’s been through a divorce and now the breaking off of an engagement.…
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Savage Love: Does a Cousin Count as Incest?
I am at a loss. I am devastated. I just found out my husband has been sexting with another woman.…
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Savage Love: When You Lose Your Kinks
I know you and other sexperts say that kinks are ingrained and not something you can get rid of, but…
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Savage Love: The Pressures of a Pandemic Sex Life
I’m a gay guy living in New York in his late twenties. Having been a frontline worker, my boyfriend has…
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Savage Love Quickies: Trouble With Intimacy
I’m a 30-year-old straight woman in a three-year relationship with my live-in partner, who is also 30. I love him…
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Savage Love: Is My Boyfriend a Good Egg?
Sex-positive bi woman here. I have recommended your column to many people over the years to help them feel normal…
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Savage Love: The Harm in Hiding HIV Status
I could really use your advice. I recently found my boyfriend’s HIV meds while I was house-sitting for him and…
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Savage Love: Cum Again
As you can see by my signature, Dan, I’m a linguist. On your podcast, you frequently ask researchers “whatchyougot” on…
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Savage Love: Should Parents Have Wild Sex with Kids in the House?
We’re an adventurous, bisexual, non-monogamous, opposite-sex couple with a teenage kid living in Europe. We don’t really struggle with finding…
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Savage Love: A Web of Relationship Drama
One of my very close friends, a lesbian, has been married for a couple of years now. It’s been nothing…
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