- Columns
Keep It 100: Self Reflection in the Time of the ‘Rona
Dear Shameika, I am at my wits’ end. How in the world do you find your passion? I am 38…
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Keep It 100: A Favor for a Favor
Dear Shameika, I am in desperate need of a career change. I am currently working in the healthcare field, but…
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Keep It 100: Dating Into Your 30s
Dear Shameika, I’m at my wits end. I want to get married one day. I’m in my early 40s and,…
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Keep It 100: RSVP For One
Dear Shameika, I just really don’t like my best friend’s boyfriend. Two years ago, my friend had an affair with…
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Keep It 100: Take ‘Em to Church
Dear Shameika, As a woman in her late 30s, it’s been hard finding quality men to date. So, I finally…
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Keep It 100: Invasion of Privacy
Dear Shameika, I’m a 45-year-old man that was dating a 40-year-old woman for a little over a year. I realized…
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Don’t Bank on Your Ex
Dear Shameika, I broke up with my ex-boyfriend a few months ago after a two-year relationship. His family doesn’t quite…
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Swimming in the Gene Pool
Dear Shameika, I’m in my late 30s, and after years of being single and dateless in the Queen City, I…
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Keep It 100: It’s Not Them, It’s You
Dear Shameika, I moved to the Charlotte area three years ago and have found dating to be super difficult. I…
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Filtered Foolishness
Dear Shameika, I’m a 40-something male who sometimes uses dating apps to meet what might be my future wife (Hey,…
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Keep It 100: The Newly Single Life
Dear Shameika, I could use some help. I just had a 2-year relationship end unexpectedly. I don’t really know why…
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When Oversharing Gets Between Friends
Dear Shameika, I love the idea of love. I even love folks that are in love, but sometimes, too much…
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Keep It 100: The Emperor’s New Clothes
Dear Shameika, My guy is awesome in so many areas; he’s supportive, considerate, passionate, giving and more. I’m talking damn…
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Keep It 100: Wedding Etiquette
Dear Auntie Shameika (Can I call you that?), I recently got married in January 2019, but we sent out…
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