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Savage Love: Red Flags Are Flying
I’m a straight man who’s been dating a woman for not quite four months. In the beginning things were light,…
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Voting By Absentee Ballot Has Already Begun in N.C.
If you’re running behind on all things voting, now is the time to get caught up. Make sure you’re registered,…
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Savage Love: All Choked Up
I’m a 29-year-old straight woman in Pennsylvania. My question has to do with choking and consent. I’ve had two experiences…
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The Seeker: NoDa Yoga Struggles To Pivot in Pandemic
You may have heard by now that multiple yoga studios have permanently shuttered in the wake of the COVID-19 pandemic;…
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Savage Love: When Divorce Is Not an Option
I’ve been married for thirty years to the same man. I have dealt with his tantrums, his screaming, and his…
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Savage Love: Making Your list and Checking It Twice
I’m a cis male in my late twenties. I’ve recently become consumed by a specific fantasy I fear is unattainable,…
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Editor’s Note: One Hour in a Republican National Convention Parking Lot
I honestly had no idea what to expect as I walked toward the parking lot at First Baptist Church on…
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Savage Love: Diaper Play, Vintage Porn and Plugging Holes
I’m a 35-year-old woman. I recently discovered I’m a size queen. (Is it OK for me to use this term?)…
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The Seeker: Take Care of Yourself So You Can Take Care of Others
Looking back a decade, it’s strange to imagine my life before yoga. There’s almost a tangible division between the previous…
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Editor’s Note: Digging the COVID Hole Deeper
Looking back now on an Editor’s Note I wrote for our March 25 issue, which in COVID time was five…
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Savage Love: The Mastery of Marriage… But Why Bother?
I’m a 38-year-old bi woman who has been sleeping with a married male coworker for the last eight months. We’re…
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Engage 2020 Brings National Suffrage Month into the Home
The 19th Amendment to the U.S. Constitution was ratified on Aug. 18, 1920. To celebrate, the U.S. Congress designated August…
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Savage Love: A Small Price to Pay for a Good Man
I’m a gay guy who’s involved with a guy I met a few months before COVID-19 took off. He’s a…
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Finding Safe Drinking Spots While My Go-To Is Closed
Since COVID-19 clamped down on the Queen City, we’ve seen our fair share of change in the nightlife landscape. As…
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Savage Love: How to Make Coworker Relationships Less Awkward
I’m a twenty-something more-or-less lesbian in an East Coast city. I’m primarily into women, and I’m only interested in relationships…
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Editor’s Note: The All-Too-Human Habit of Dehumanization
On July 17, I took part in a panel discussion hosted by the local chapter of the National Alliance on…
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