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Savage Love: Reconciling With the Alter Ego
I’m someone who does gay porn for a living. How do people who do gay porn meet someone who doesn’t…
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The Seeker: Quelling Relationship Anxiety
When I say I live with anxiety instead of suffer from it, I choose those words carefully, simply because I…
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Savage Love: The Sub Hits the Switch
You’ve said that everyone is entitled to a “zone of erotic autonomy.” I was wondering if you thought that “zone”…
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Savage Love Quickies: Let’s Get Sexual
I have a quick question about bisexuality. What if one has a preference for dating straight individuals? As a straight…
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Brewery Hopping While Black in Charlotte
In the current environment of Black Lives Matter, Stop Asian Hate and myriad of other hashtags and movements being used…
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Savage Love: Finding the Right Relationship
I’m a cis bi guy in my forties who doesn’t have a lot of experience with other men. I’m happily…
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Editor’s Note: Cherry’s Longtime Leaders Are Not for the Disrespect
Barbara Rainey has seen a lot of change in Cherry over her 70 years. Having lived the first 33 years…
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How to Grow Weed at Home: A Step-by-Step Guide
On March 31, Democrat Virginia Gov. Ralph Northam announced proposed changes to legislation passed in that state earlier in the…
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Savage Love: After the Breakup
I’m a female in my late twenties. I broke up with a toxic ex about a year ago and I’ve…
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The Seeker: Searching for a Positive Outlook
A greatest fear of mine may be living a life that is subpar to my fullest potential and simply existing…
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Savage Love: The Doghouse Can’t Be Forever
I’m a 29-year-old straight male. I’ve been with my 25-year-old partner for six years. I love her and think that…
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Editor’s Note: Keeping Mary’s Voice Alive
At around sunset on April 4, 2021, a group of about 60 people gathered at Davis Flohr Neighborhood Park in…
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Savage Love: Should Couples Snoop?
I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years and we have a great relationship—or so I thought. Last week, I…
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Savage Love Quickies: Relationship Woes
I want to thank everyone who attended our third Savage Love Livestream on March 13. Mistress Matisse was our very…
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Savage Love: The Cuckold Dilemma
A male friend — not my best friend but a close one — told me his wife was really attracted…
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Savage Love: Assholes Don’t Have Epiphanies
I’m having a problem advising a friend. She’s been through a divorce and now the breaking off of an engagement.…
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