Columns
-
The Seeker: Practicing Self-Love Through An Extrasensory Lens
In the name of Valentine’s Day tradition, this year I committed time and attention to the person I care about…
Read More » -
Savage Love: When You Lose Your Kinks
I know you and other sexperts say that kinks are ingrained and not something you can get rid of, but…
Read More » -
Editor’s Note: The Crisis Doesn’t Disappear with Tent City
Standing in her rainbow-tie-dyed sweatsuit, purple headband, and pink rain boots, Victoria Boyd was the most colorful person at Tent…
Read More » -
Savage Love: The Pressures of a Pandemic Sex Life
I’m a gay guy living in New York in his late twenties. Having been a frontline worker, my boyfriend has…
Read More » -
Not All Protagonists Wear Capes in LoSo
Upon waking up two Saturdays ago, I frantically searched for my cell phone to discern the time, confused as to…
Read More » -
Savage Love Quickies: Trouble With Intimacy
I’m a 30-year-old straight woman in a three-year relationship with my live-in partner, who is also 30. I love him…
Read More » -
The Seeker: Time Affluence For the Overachiever
While evolving into the current 2021 version of myself, I’ve somehow lost the ability to slow down. I can’t tell…
Read More » -
Savage Love: Is My Boyfriend a Good Egg?
Sex-positive bi woman here. I have recommended your column to many people over the years to help them feel normal…
Read More » -
Savage Love: The Harm in Hiding HIV Status
I could really use your advice. I recently found my boyfriend’s HIV meds while I was house-sitting for him and…
Read More » -
Editor’s Note: The Capitol Insurrection Was the Illogical Next Step
Like anyone with half a heart, brain and/or soul, I watched the events of the Jan. 6 Capitol insurrection unfold…
Read More » -
Savage Love: Should Parents Have Wild Sex with Kids in the House?
We’re an adventurous, bisexual, non-monogamous, opposite-sex couple with a teenage kid living in Europe. We don’t really struggle with finding…
Read More » -
The Seeker: The Winter Solstice Brings New Beginnings
For those of us living in the Northern Hemisphere, the December Solstice earmarks the longest night and shortest day of…
Read More » -
Savage Love: A Web of Relationship Drama
One of my very close friends, a lesbian, has been married for a couple of years now. It’s been nothing…
Read More » -
Editor’s Note: Proud New Year’s Eve Party Pooper
The time we’ve all been waiting for is here. The end of 2020, a year that will live in infamy.…
Read More » -
RECEIPTS: Top Shitshows of the Charlotte Pandemic
[Publisher’s note: These videos have been taken from public social media accounts or have been sent to us through either…
Read More » -
Savage Love: Leftover Advice for Live-Streamed Quickies
We hosted our second Savage Love Livestream last week and it was a blast. I ran my mouth as fast…
Read More »
