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Savage Love Quickies: Monkeypox, Edibles and Jacking Off Upside Down
Gay dude here. What the fuck is up with monkeypox? Do I need to be worried? Yes, you do. I…
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Horoscope | What’s Your Sign Saying This Week?
BORN THIS WEEK: You love to travel and be with people. You probably would be happy as a social director…
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My First Visit to Bazal Ends in the Bathroom
“God it’s hot,” I thought to myself as I plopped down in a vacant bathroom stall. Weary and worn down…
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Savage Love: Oxytocin, Dopamine and Bonding After Sex
My partner and I are a heterosexual couple with a large age gap. He is the older one, and our…
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Horoscope | What’s Your Sign Saying This Week?
BORN THIS WEEK: You are sensitive to matters that involve your home and family. You would make a fine family-court…
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Savage Love: Let’s Call Out ‘Just My Preference’ Gays for Racial Profiling
I’m taking a week off, so this week’s “Savage Love” is a reprint of a column that was originally published…
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Coming Face to Face with the Gun Violence Epidemic
“I got shot.” Three words that you just aren’t expecting to hear in a casual conversation after reuniting with an…
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Savage Love: Bad Dom Challenges Limits of Inexperienced Sub
I’m a 29-year-old bisexual woman in a non-monogamous relationship. A few years ago, I wanted to explore my submissive side…
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Savage Love: Bad Relationships Lead to Fears of Flawed Judgement
I’m trying to date again after back-to-back negative relationship experiences. Experiences that have made me question my own judgment and…
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Going Back to Somewhere New at Super Abari Game Bar
When your day starts by defending adults around the world obsessed with the supernatural adventures of Stranger Things to your…
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Savage Love: Boyfriend’s Riches Have Partner Feeling Like a Kept Boy
I’m a 31-year-old queer person living in Europe. I recently met a 46-year-old man. We were visiting the same…
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Savage Love Quickies: Balls, Personal Hygiene and Low Libido
My laptop died last week. My laptop couldn’t die when I was in the office, with capable tech support people…
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The Seeker: My First Experience With Microneedling
I’m a winner, baby. And I’m not being facetious when I say so; I actually won! This year, I’ve been…
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Savage Love: Freysexual Fiancé Would Rather Sext With Strangers
I am a 37-year-old heterosexual woman in a monogamous relationship with a het cis male. Let’s call him “Rick.” We’ve…
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Savage Love: Abortion Rights, Swinger Apps and Bejeweled Butt Plugs
I’m a straight guy, married to a straight woman for 15 years. Several years back, I opened up to my…
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A ‘Mean Girls’ Miscommunication Between Women
As a black, “fam,” quasi-gender-bending Women’s Studies major, I’ve always prided myself on having a perspective that is difficult to…
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