Columns
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Systemic Racism Comes Out at Night
As a lover of all things nightlife, I’ve relished the opportunity to document my late-night experiences and adventures throughout the…
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Savage Love: Kinks and Gays
I have a question. I’m a gay man in a relationship and we’re both really happy since we met a…
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Letter to the Editor: The Confederate Flag Is Not a Symbol of the South
As a French-Canadian immigrant to North Carolina in my youth, seeing the Confederate flag sitting atop poles and donned on…
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Savage Love: Who’s Blowing Up Your Phone?
I’m committed to my male partner and he’s committed to me. (I’m a woman.) But we both understand we need…
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No More Whitewashing the Women’s Suffrage Movement
The most difficult, but unfortunately not surprising, part about writing this column is facing the reality that even the history…
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Opinion: Defund the Police or Bust
The first time I saw a Black person killed by police I was 5 years old. Living on Burkland Drive…
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Savage Love: Oral Reports
I’m a 32-year-old straight guy. My wife and I have been married for four years and together for nine. We…
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Editor’s Note: Momentum in an Age of Irreverence
“What would the Native Americans think of this?” That was a question my dad used to pose to me when…
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Savage Love: Quick Clips and Other Livestream Leftovers
Hey, Everybody: We had our first Savage Love Livestream event last Thursday night and I had such a blast! A…
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Phase 2 Freaks Come Out at Night as Charlotte Restaurants Reopen
In spite of COVID-19, many Charlotte restaurants, bars, breweries and retailers have remained resilient and some have learned how to…
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Savage Love: Blinders
Here goes: I’m a 32-year-old gay male and I have trouble staying out of my head during sex. I feel…
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Savage Love: Are Some People Hopelessly Bad at Sex?
I don’t want to become one of those people who write to you complaining about how I married someone I…
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The Seeker: A Live Stream Full of Detox Revelations
While sheltering in place these past few weeks I’ve found myself exploring new strategies to maintain my mental and physical…
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Suffrage Movement Faced Opposition as Vitriolic as Today’s Battles
As President Lyndon B. Johnson signed the Voting Rights Act in 1965, prohibiting racial discrimination in voting, he said, “The…
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Savage Love: Power Players and Problematic Porn
Here’s a non-COVID question for you: I’m a queer white female in a monogamish marriage. I vote left, I abhor…
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Savage Love: Hearing Voices and Listening to Logic
It’s taken a lot to do this but here goes. I am a 38-year-old gay male. I have been dating…
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