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Savage Love: Return of the Crabs
I’m a gay male in my forties and I’ve been married to my husband for nine years. There was some…
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Savage Love: The Hall Pass and The Jackass
I’m a 19-year-old girl who was dumped few months ago. My partner found out he didn’t like my body when…
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Savage Love: Coming Out and Other Queer Quickies
I just attended the nauseating wedding of my 30-year-old niece to her boyfriend of several years. Both of them seem…
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Savage Love: When OnlyFans Followers Aren’t Only Fans
I’m a 40-year-old gay male. I live in a big city, in a dense neighborhood. While I’ve been working from…
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Savage Love: Should I Disclose My Herpes Condition Before an Orgy?
We’re a happily married couple from Europe, longtime readers, both in our thirties, and both interested in having sex sometimes…
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Savage Love: Don’t Let the Fuccbois Win
I’ve been living with my boyfriend for a year and need some relationship advice. We met on FetLife and I…
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Savage Love: Lubes, Strokes, and Permissible Secret Perving
I had a stroke a year ago. The woman I was dating at the time stepped away. I have no…
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Savage Love: Cheating With the Best Friend
I need your advice. My partner of 27 years has been sleeping with my best friend. This has been going…
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Savage Love: Getting the Shaft
I’m a European heterosexual girl and reading your column from afar has been a good way for me to better…
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Savage Love: Reconciling With the Alter Ego
I’m someone who does gay porn for a living. How do people who do gay porn meet someone who doesn’t…
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Savage Love: The Sub Hits the Switch
You’ve said that everyone is entitled to a “zone of erotic autonomy.” I was wondering if you thought that “zone”…
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Savage Love Quickies: Let’s Get Sexual
I have a quick question about bisexuality. What if one has a preference for dating straight individuals? As a straight…
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Savage Love: Finding the Right Relationship
I’m a cis bi guy in my forties who doesn’t have a lot of experience with other men. I’m happily…
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How to Grow Weed at Home: A Step-by-Step Guide
On March 31, Democrat Virginia Gov. Ralph Northam announced proposed changes to legislation passed in that state earlier in the…
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Savage Love: After the Breakup
I’m a female in my late twenties. I broke up with a toxic ex about a year ago and I’ve…
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Savage Love: The Doghouse Can’t Be Forever
I’m a 29-year-old straight male. I’ve been with my 25-year-old partner for six years. I love her and think that…
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