Advice
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Savage Love: It’s a Female-Led Relationship, Now Act Like It
My wife asked me to write to you about our situation. We’ve been married for 15 years. I am 50…
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Savage Love: Are Some People Hopelessly Bad at Sex?
I don’t want to become one of those people who write to you complaining about how I married someone I…
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Savage Love: Power Players and Problematic Porn
Here’s a non-COVID question for you: I’m a queer white female in a monogamish marriage. I vote left, I abhor…
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Savage Love: Spit and Polish
I’m a 31-year-old cis bisexual woman. I’m hetero-romantic and in a monogamish relationship with a man. We play with other…
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Savage Love: Thrown Bones
I’m 20, straight, male, fit and active. I masturbated prone — flat on my stomach — for years. I’ve now…
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Quickies: Deal Breakers
I’ve been with my boyfriend for a few months. Prior to dating, I was clear with him that I would…
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Savage Love: Reading Between the Likes
My best friend’s father is an avid user of social media. He’s retired and spends most of his day…
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Savage Love: Workmates
When I first started dating my girlfriend, I asked her about past boyfriends and she said she hadn’t met the…
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Savage Love: Buried Secrets
My grandfather was a pillar of the community and beloved by his family. He was also sexually abusive. He died…
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Savage Love: Loaded Question
Let’s say my kink is edging and I edge myself for a few days leading up to a date. Is…
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Keep It 100: Wedding Etiquette
Dear Auntie Shameika (Can I call you that?), I recently got married in January 2019, but we sent out…
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Savage Love: Outer Limits
I’m a gay guy in my late 40s with a straight sister in her early 50s. She’s been married for…
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Consider the (Extra) Lobster
Two weeks ago, a longtime reader challenged me to create a new sexual neologism. (Quickly for the pedants: You’re right!…
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Savage Love: The Doll
I am a 56-year-heterosexual man, and I have lived with ALS for the past six years. I am either in…
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Savage Love: Quickies
Can I still be considered sex-positive if I personally do not have sex? I’ve never had sex or masturbated —…
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Savage Love: Omissions and Emissions
I’m a 21-year-old woman, and I have an IUD. I’ve had sex with quite a few men, and one thing…
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