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Horoscope: October 1 – October 7 | What is Your Sign Saying This Week?
BORN THIS WEEK: You seek balance, but not at the expense of justice. You would make a fine judge or do great with humanitarian work. ARIES (March 21 to April 19) Someone has some suggestions to offer regarding your new project. You might find them helpful. Remember to avoid speculation…
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Savage Love: I’m Straight and My Gay Friend Gives Me Blowjobs
There is more to this week’s Savage Love. To read the entire column, go to Savage.Love. Dear Readers: I’m away this week, so we’re re-running a popular Q&A from a few years back. This column originally appeared in late June of 2018. I’ll be back next week with a brand-new column.…
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Savage Love: My Husband Got the Monkeypox Vaccine, Is He Cheating?
There is more to this week’s Savage Love. To read the entire column, go to Savage.Love. Dear Savage Love Readers: After Nov. 14 my website Savage.Love will become the exclusive online home for my column. My column will still appear in print in publications like Queen City Nerve, but you will…
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Savage Love Quickies: Asexual, Non-Monogamy and Threesomes
There is more to this week’s Savage Love. To read the entire column, go to Savage.Love. Can someone be both homosexual and asexual? I can’t wrap my brain around this one. Sure, a person can be asexual while also being homosexual… because asexuality is a spectrum, and that spectrum is…
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Savage Love: Massive Orgasms Leave Reader Unable to Function
There is more to this week’s Savage Love. To read the entire column, go to Savage.Love. I’m a 71-year-old gay man married to a much younger man. That’s all fine, not relevant so much as just info. Fifteen years ago, I briefly took Prozac. While it dulled my sex drive, the…
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Savage Love: How Can I Ease My Spouse Into D/s Play?
There is more to this week’s Savage Love. To read the entire column, go to Savage.Love. I’m a 31-year-old cis man married to a 33-year-old non-binary partner, and our relationship has always been very vanilla. Over the past few years, I’ve discovered that I’m a kinky person, with a particular interest…
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Savage Love: I’m Tired of Being Treated Like a Gay Black Fantasy
There is more to this week’s Savage Love. To read the entire column, go to Savage.Love. I’m a gay Black man in my early 30s. When I was a teen, I was called fat and ugly by family and friends. I should also point out that I was in an all-white…
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Savage Love: My Wife Is Slut-Shaming Me in Our Open Marriage
There is more to this week’s Savage Love. To read the entire column, go to Savage.Love. 42-year-old dad here. I’ve been married for 12 years, and my marriage has been somewhat turbulent. But after some affairs — one where my wife screwed my best friend — and therapy, we reconnected, righted…
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Savage Love: My Straight Boyfriend Is Sending Dick Pics to a Man
There is more to this week’s Savage Love. To read the entire column, go to Savage.Love. I’m monogamous and have been dating my boyfriend who identifies as straight for a little over a year. He told me that he had a strict “no contact with exes” policy when we first met.…
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Savage Love: Small-Town Teacher Fears Being Recognized on Hookup Apps
There is more to this week’s Savage Love. To read the entire column, go to Savage.Love. I’m a 38-year-old cis het woman who is also a public high school teacher in a small town. After a string of unsatisfying relationships in my 20s, I realized that I’ve only experienced sexual pleasure…
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Savage Love: Lover’s Lack of Romantic Feelings Could Be a Sign
There is more to this week’s Savage Love. To read the entire column, go to Savage.Love. I’m a 29-year-old gay man just shy of five years sober. I’ve had to do a lot of work on myself in recovery to accept and love myself after being dragged to conversion therapy when…
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Savage Love: My Wife Won’t Let Me Watch Porn
There is more to this week’s Savage Love. To read the entire column, go to Savage.Love. I’ve been with my wife for 10 years. We are both 36 years old. We moved in fast and didn’t take time to learn certain things about one another. For example, I watch porn,…
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Savage Love Quickies: Cockrings, Lube and Trans Prostitutes
I’m a 40-year-old female, cis-het. I have very discerning tastes in men, and always end up alone. Any way to be more open without sacrificing my standards? You’ve either had a terrible run of bad luck — assuming you’ve dated more than 10 men — or you’ve set your standards…
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Savage Love: How To Stay Safe if You’re Into Sexual Choking
I have a question about choking. Or should that be simulated choking? I’ve recently discovered that being pinned down by my neck is a huge turn on for me. I love the feeling of being dominated and controlled, and of feeling my partner’s strength on this part of my body.…
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Savage Love: You’re Not Cuckqueaning, You’re Hothusbanding
I’m a 36-year-old married woman who fantasizes about her husband of 10 years being intimate with other women. This isn’t a new thing for me. I’ve fantasized about this for years, but we’ve never acted on it. He is intrigued but afraid that it might somehow damage our relationship. But…
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Savage Love: If Rough Sex Turns Painful, Say More Than ‘Ouch’
A friend hooked me up with a much younger guy for weed. Let’s call him “Pretty Boy.” He knew something about me — Pretty Boy had been to a party at my house — and I knew something about him: He’s a burner, like our mutual. Consent is supposed to…
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